Have you ever been in a fight?
Not a physical fight, but a very tense arguement with somebody close to you?
It happens to everyone – I have been in that situation many times. And sometimes it takes awhile to heal the rift that sometimes forms between you and the other person.
And the secret of this healing?
You have to let go. You have to get your mind to drop the ill thoughts completely – don’t think about it, or turn the situation over and over in your mind any more.
That is the only way to heal most of these battles with other people – especially if you care for them. Once you have put the situation out of your mind – it isn’t far off that you wake up one day and realize that all of the bad feelings are gone.
Holding on to the ill will is just a way of fighting yourself, and destroying relationships.
And there is a Magick lesson in all of this, of course…
You must learn to let go of every spell you cast – every single time.
Here’s what I mean…
When you have done your ritual or spell, and snuffed out the last candle, and opened your circle – don’t think about the spell ever again.
You have to just “know” and have faith that your desire will appear soon – in many cases sooner than you think.
But one of the biggest secrets to casting spells that work by allowing your Magick energy to have full focus on your desire – is to never think about it again.
You see, when you cast a spell (for example, a Money spell) – and then dwell on it, and even obsess over it for hours, days, even weeks after you cast it – it will almost never work. The reason is that you are actually keeping some of the energy inside of you, instead of releasing it into the universe to work on bringing you wealth and prosperity.
It took me a long time to realize this, but once I did – the lightbulb in my head went off, and I realized what I had been doing wrong all along. I kept thinking about the spells I had cast…wondering when they were going to work…anticipating the fullfillment of all of my desires…waiting…wondering…and NOTHING!
However, when I started to “let go” of the spell immediately after I cast it, amazing things started to happen to me. And they will for you too…
So, learn to let go, and doors will open for you that you never expected.
Blessings,
Rose